Stay Alert, Stay Safe
Online matrimony platforms are meant to help you find genuine partners. Be cautious, verify information, and never share sensitive details with strangers.
Profile Safety
- Use recent, genuine photos of yourself
- Provide accurate information
- Don't include contact details in your profile
- Avoid sharing your exact address
- Keep family member names private initially
- Review your privacy settings regularly
Communication Safety
- Use the platform's messaging system first
- Don't share phone numbers too quickly
- Avoid sharing personal email immediately
- Be cautious with video calls initially
- Report suspicious behavior immediately
- Trust your instincts
Financial Safety
- Never send money to anyone you haven't met
- Don't share bank account details
- Avoid sharing credit/debit card information
- Be wary of sob stories or emergencies
- Don't accept requests for loans or gifts
- Report financial scam attempts
Meeting in Person
- Meet in public places during daytime
- Inform family/friends about the meeting
- Arrange your own transportation
- Don't accept rides from strangers
- Bring a friend or family member
- Keep your phone charged and accessible
Verify Identity
- Ask for proper ID verification
- Verify employment and education claims
- Conduct background checks if needed
- Meet family members before commitment
- Verify address and residence
- Check social media profiles
Privacy Protection
- Use strong, unique passwords
- Enable two-factor authentication
- Don't share your password with anyone
- Log out from public devices
- Be careful with location sharing
- Review profile visibility settings
Red Flags - Report Immediately
- Requests for money or financial help
- Pressure to move communication off the platform quickly
- Reluctance to meet in person or video chat
- Inconsistent stories or information
- Avoiding questions about family or background
- Too good to be true profiles or promises
- Aggressive or inappropriate behavior
- Requests for intimate photos or videos
- Claims of working abroad or traveling extensively
- Unwillingness to share verifiable information
Never Share These Details
- National ID (NID) or Passport numbers
- Bank account or credit card information
- Social Security or Tax ID numbers
- Copies of important documents
- Workplace security credentials
- Intimate or compromising photos/videos
- Home address until you've met in person
- Daily routines or schedule details
Involve Your Family
Traditional family involvement in matrimonial decisions is important:
- Share profile information with family members
- Involve parents or guardians in major decisions
- Arrange family meetings before finalizing
- Seek family advice on suspicious situations
- Conduct background checks through family networks
Online Safety Best Practices
- Take Your Time: Don't rush into decisions. Take time to know the person properly
- Trust Your Gut: If something feels wrong, it probably is. Trust your instincts
- Do Your Research: Google search names, reverse image search photos
- Watch for Inconsistencies: Note if stories or details change over time
- Ask Questions: Don't hesitate to ask detailed questions about background, family, and work
- Video Chat First: Have video conversations before meeting in person
- Meet Multiple Times: Don't make decisions based on one meeting
- Get References: Ask for references from mutual contacts or family
- Document Everything: Keep records of conversations and commitments
- Report Suspicious Activity: Help keep the community safe by reporting bad actors
Common Matrimony Scams to Avoid
- Romance Scams: Building emotional connection to request money
- Catfishing: Using fake photos and identities
- Advance Fee Fraud: Asking for money for visa, travel, or emergencies
- Job Scams: Promising employment abroad in exchange for fees
- Investment Scams: Offering fake business or investment opportunities
- Identity Theft: Collecting personal information for fraudulent purposes
- Blackmail: Threatening to expose private conversations or photos
If You Suspect a Scam or Feel Unsafe
- Stop all communication immediately
- Don't send any money or share more information
- Report the profile to BibahoBangla support
- Block the user on all platforms
- Save all evidence (screenshots, messages, photos)
- Contact local police if you've lost money
- Report to Bangladesh Cyber Crime Unit
- Warn family and friends about the scammer
- Change your passwords if you've shared them
- Monitor your bank accounts for suspicious activity
Cultural & Religious Considerations
Maintain cultural and religious values throughout your search:
- Follow Islamic guidelines for interactions between non-mahram
- Involve family elders in important discussions
- Maintain appropriate boundaries until marriage
- Verify religious practices and beliefs
- Respect cultural traditions and family expectations
- Conduct meetings in appropriate settings
BibahoBangla Safety Features
We provide tools to help you stay safe:
- Report & Block: Report suspicious profiles or block unwanted users
- Privacy Controls: Control who can see your profile and contact you
- Secure Messaging: Use our platform messaging to keep your contact info private
- Profile Verification: Look for verified badges on profiles
- 24/7 Support: Contact our support team for any safety concerns
- Safety Center: Access safety resources and guidelines anytime
Your safety and happiness matter to us.
Stay vigilant, trust your instincts, and may you find your perfect life partner safely.